Friendships that are Real by Natasha of Maw Books Blog

womenreadingOnce upon a time, there were these people.  These people liked to read.  A. Lot.  But when they turned to their families and friends to talk about what they read, they often received blank stares in return.  As much as their friends and family loved them, they simply did not understand this thing called reading.  Not to say that they didn’t support them, because they did, they really did, but sometimes these people needed somebody who spoke their language.  Who understood exactly what it was that reading did to them.


And then the internet happened.


Suddenly, these people could go online and find forums where they could talk about books without having to endure the eye-rolling and blank stares from their family and friends!  People just like them loved books as much as they did!


And then blogging happened.


Suddenly, forums weren’t enough.  These people could write their own book reviews and bookish musings for the entire world to see.  And then something amazing happened.


The. World. Wrote. Back.


A comment!  Somebody cared about what they had to say.  A connection was made regardless of their shared or differed social status, race, family background, wealth, or location.  This thing called blogging brought two people together.  People who loved books.  Pretty soon, it just wasn’t just two people.  It was three, then four, then a dozen, then a hundred, then thousands.  A community was formed.


Pretty soon they just weren’t talking about books anymore.  They were sharing in each others moments of happiness and moments of grief.  They celebrated engagements, marriages, births and deaths together.  All the while sitting in the comfort of their own homes.  And then some of the people started to get crazy ideas.


What if they *gasp* actually met?


Would it be weird?  Would it be awkward?  For many, this meant the return of the blank stares from their family members and, for some, outbursts of “But you could get killed!  What if these people are really crazy?!”  But these people knew without a doubt that book bloggers were among some of the most amazing people they knew.  They weren’t about to let a little eye-rolling or the threat of imminent death stop them.  For some this meant buying airplane tickets and flying across the country to attend book festivals or expos in which the highlight of the trip was inevitably the squealing as long lost friends were finally freed from the barriers of keyboards and computer screens.


I know many of us can relate to these experiences.  While I myself, have forked out a pretty penny to fly across the country to meet some amazing bloggers, I have been fortunate to literally be able to walk outside my door and within minutes be connected to dozens of local Utah book bloggers and authors.  I don’t know what we have in the water out here, but seriously, all of you need a taste of it.


Not only does Utah lay claim to amazing authors such as Shannon Hale, Sara Zarr, Brandon Mull, Brandon Sanderson, James Dashner, Carol Lynch Williams, Chris Crowe, J. Scott Savage, Ann Dee Ellis, Emily Wing Smith, Jessica Day George, Mette Ivie Harrison, A.E. Cannon, Anne Bowen, Richard Paul Evans and a dozen others that I fear I will be offending for lack of inclusion but Utah also boasts an amazing population of book bloggers.  Within a few hours of each other there are literally dozens of us who can claim that we blog exclusively about books.


It was during the following experience that I had a light bulb moment.  Myself, my husband and two kids attended a fun Children’s Literature Festival last spring.  It wasn’t until I got home and wrote my own post about the event and then checked my Google Reader to discover that Suey at It’s All About Books had also blogged about the event.  Both she and I comment regularly on each other’s blogs but it was then that I realized that neither of us knew what the other looked like!  Suey’s family was literally standing in front of us in one of the signing lines.  A friend so close but yet so far away.


utah-book-bloggers-buttonsmallI knew then that I wanted things to change.  No more of not knowing that we were unknowingly standing shoulder to shoulder with one of our friends (as strange as that sounds)!  Since then we have had two socials - The Utah Book Bloggers Bash and the Utah Book Bloggers Social - and our size has grown from half a dozen to literally 30+ bloggers.  Our local authors are very supportive of our grassroots literary scene and have attended our events as well.  As Suey says, “It’s great that we’ve been able to get our Utah book bloggers together and are now on the road to becoming in-real-life friends. It’s fun to be able to put a face and personality to everyone’s blogs. I love it!”


Utah Book Bloggers who should be on your radar:

We can be found at the Utah Book Bloggers Group and you can subscribe to our own feed which will also keep you updated on new blogs as they enter the Utah literary scene.
If you have book bloggers in your area, I would highly recommend organizing yourselves and having meet ups.  It’s a great opportunity to relax and feel as though somebody is truly speaking your language.  And we are proof that book bloggers truly are the kindest type of people - nobody got killed.  And that’s a good thing.

Natasha blogs at Maw Books and can also be found on Twitter at @mawbooks

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“But when they turned to their families and friends to talk about what they read, they often received blank stares in return.”

Ah, so true! When I read that I thought, “I really have found my place!” I have yet to met anyone IRL, but for now just having people who can recommend books and provide feedback on what I’ve read is pretty great. It has been amazing to find such a wonderful community of book bloggers.

Posted by Alita  on  09/17  at  04:02 PM

I have to thank every blogger here for their support for my book “A Circle of Souls,” the whole community deserves a huge Gold Star for their time and dedication that they haven given to help author’s such as myself to get the word out. I am indebted to your community and thank you with all my heart for all the wonderful support.

Preetham Grandhi M.D

Posted by Preetham Grandhi  on  09/17  at  04:26 PM

Fantastic post, Natasha…you hit the nail right on the head! I found myself nodding and nodding and nodding smile

Posted by Wendy  on  09/17  at  05:07 PM

I love this post — and the story that it tells.  I am thinking now of some of my favorite young bloggers, also hailing from the state of Utah.  (Q, for example, is a brilliant blogger)

Perhaps it is something in your air.

Posted by Beth Kephart  on  09/17  at  05:10 PM

Very cool, Natasha!  I recently had my 1st ever book blogger meet with Heather of A High and Hidden Place.  She’s super sweet and it was so much fun!  I am hoping to get more who live in our region to get together soon.  Thanks for highlighting these blogs.  I only knew of 9!  Now time to check out the rest!

Posted by Rebecca  on  09/17  at  06:48 PM

Exactly. I am a new book blogger who is still trying to get the hang of things, but I have been so surprised at the sense of community I already feel. I think you are right on Natasha.

Posted by Sharla  on  09/17  at  07:34 PM

Great , thought and heartfelt post….Thank you for sharing your thoughts..which…alot of us bloggers feel the same way.
I was born in Utah…do I count in your group? My sister is living now near Teasdale…hahah

Thankyou!

Posted by Allison King  on  09/17  at  07:49 PM

Great post Natasha! While I have yet to meet any of my blogger buddies in person, it’s wonderful to be part of such a great community!

Had to laugh at the blank stares and rolling eyes comment….so true! *L*

Posted by Alexia561  on  09/17  at  07:55 PM

Great post—makes me look forward to the next get-together already!  Maybe this time I’ll venture to talk to more people.  smile

Posted by Lynn  on  09/17  at  08:08 PM

I’m so glad you were asked to write this post.  I love having the list of Utah bloggers, many I don’t know and now I can visit. 

I wonder how many of us will be in SLC for the Book Festival.  We could be standing in line next to friends there, too.

Posted by booklogged  on  09/17  at  10:01 PM

My blog is pretty new, and I didn’t have any idea that the book blogging scene was so huge until about a month ago. But I agree with what everyone is saying about the sense of community that you feel. It happens right away. Suddenly you’re part of this great big thing, and it’s amazing! I thank BBAW and the Utah Book Bloggers for it all!

Posted by Mellissa  on  09/17  at  10:33 PM

There is definitely something special about Utah bloggers!  I have yet to meet any bloggers, having transplanted myself away from all the bloggers I know, but I can’t wait to meet everyone at the next BEA!  I love this community and it really is like discovering a whole group of wonderful friends who finally understand me.

Posted by Meghan  on  09/18  at  01:43 AM

Lovely!  Wonderful post.  I can only think of 3 other book bloggers from Mass and I am sure that I’m unaware of many!

Posted by Care  on  09/18  at  03:41 AM

That’s it exactly!

I always said I didn’t want to be a Mormon living in Utah but for that kind of book blogger community it just might be worth it! That just doesn’t happen in my corner of Los Angeles.

Think I can get my husband to change jobs? Move away from both of our families? Leave out married daughter behind? Haul all my books to a new state? LOL

color me envy but I’ve got to stay here - I’ll just live life vicariously though you wink

Posted by Gina @ BookDragon's Lair  on  09/18  at  04:42 AM

We owe it all to you, Natasha, for getting us all together. I doubt that any of us would have even thought of it. Thanks so much for that! smile

Posted by Suey  on  09/18  at  05:36 AM

I can really relate to the blank stares from family members! Thanks, Natasha!

Posted by Rebecca Reid  on  09/18  at  06:47 AM

The list just keeps growing and growing… I can barely keep up!!

Posted by Britt, Book Habitue  on  09/18  at  10:03 AM

Wow, I didn’t realize there were so many Utah bloggers. I wish I knew more in my area.

Posted by Debbie's World of Books  on  09/18  at  02:10 PM

For some reason, this post reminded me of the beginning of 2001:  A Space Odyssey.

Posted by heidenkind  on  09/18  at  03:06 PM

I just have to say that Natasha rocks!

Posted by alisonwonderland  on  09/18  at  06:58 PM

GREAT post Natasha!!  So much of it hits very close to home!! 

On another note, I’ve been trying to get the word out about an upcoming Midwest book blogger get together (or at least, one that is in the works!), but have not had much luck in getting responses.  The whole conversation resulted from speaking to another blogger on Twitter and I posted about it getting some ideas.  Anyways, I guess what I’m wondering . . . do you have any suggestions on helping to get the word out?  If so, email me at tiftalksbooks at gmail dot com!!  I would love to hear your thoughts!!

Posted by Tif  on  09/19  at  06:08 AM

Great post Natasha. You’re the best. I still need to make it to one of those Utah Blogger Bashes.

Posted by Haiku Amy  on  09/20  at  10:52 PM

Hey Natasha, I enjoyed reading your post on reading and meeting up with fellow book bloggers.  smile

I’m lucky that I have a sister who enjoys reading as much as I do so I have somebody to talk to about books and reading.  She also has a stash of great books that I can borrow!

Posted by Josette  on  09/22  at  07:36 PM

Your thought about this project is really good in fact.
Great presentation
Hooray!

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